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It's just a reply to a message. There really aren't that many tricks. I've always been inclined to think that the speed of replying to messages in chat has little to do with the degree of preference.

For example, if this person is relatively cold, what you can see is that the meaning of words and language in your mind may be completely different from the meaning in the other person's mind.

You may think it is perfunctory, but in fact it is an answer that someone has thought about for a long time.

The same goes for instant replies. Some people just don't like chatting on mobile phones, but they prefer face-to-face conversations, and they don't even talk about it, just based on their feelings.

The reason why we are so confused about the matter of instant reply is actually because of connection.

If the ten rings are connected together, you may think it's nothing, but if the rings are broken in the middle, you will pay more attention than usual to these things that you hardly pay attention to at ordinary times.

Most of the time, people don't create this sense of abruptness when chatting. Most people speak smoothly and in an ordinary way.

That is - you will know what to say next as soon as you open your mouth.

For example, a watch must be used to tell time, and a mobile phone must be used to make calls.

In fact, watches can be used as decorations, mobile phones can be used as live broadcast tools, game consoles, etc...

Many things can continue to stimulate the curiosity of viewers only when they are not fixed.

Only when you are curious will you come back to this matter immediately. Almost no one is interested in something that remains the same.

So when you are thinking about how to make girls like you more when I chat, you need to create this kind of moment for the other party that can arouse the other party's curiosity.

The beginning of connection – curiosity.

Next, let me talk about how you should behave to stimulate the other party's curiosity during the chat! 1. The beginning of curiosity is uncertainty.

Many boys think too single-mindedly during the chat and give machine-like answers, which is actually the most difficult thing for people to reply to.

It's like I know how to reply, but it's a waste of time.

Asked if you had eaten?

Just say - have you eaten?

Ate or not, those are the two answers.

The method of creating uncertainty is to let the other party slowly know what you are talking about? Do you know what holiday today is? What? Today is the first day of winter, and I'm going to make something for dinner. Yo, can you cook? It’s not about cooking anymore, I’m just combining various ingredients. Like sushi? Roughly the same! Hey, you like sushi? Barabara.

Finally, guide the other person to see if he or she has eaten. 2. You are not actually you when you are chatting.

At first glance, this title may confuse many people. How should I chat if I don’t talk to myself?

Of course you can talk, but you have to imagine yourself as the other person's best "servant."

I'm not asking you to be a licking dog, but I'm asking you to feel what the other person is thinking.

For example, the other party said it today. Oops, something is a bit tricky.

Then you immediately think, what should I do if I encounter something difficult?

What to do? rather than what to do.

Tell the other person your mental journey, and then communicate with the other person about this difficult matter. The other person will definitely think that you are having a very interesting chat with the other person, and they will be more willing to chat with you. 1. 3. Set up suspense.

In writing, the thing that keeps people reading is suspense.

There are many types of suspense, including cognitive difference suspense, information asymmetry suspense, etc.

And when you set up this kind of suspense when chatting with girls, it will make girls want to continue chatting with you as if they have read the exciting plot of a novel.

This is not an effect that can be achieved in just three or five sentences, but must be carefully designed. You said, "I'm in trouble." She said, "What's wrong?" You said, "We got into a fight." She said, "You got into a fight with someone? What's going on?" You said, "I don't know. They were very irritable, and then they started to fight each other, and then..." She " Are you okay?" You said, "I'm okay, but something happened on the battlefield." She, "Did someone smash up his shop?" You, "I opened up my kitchen. I'm just kidding. I was handling fish just now, and the fish flew out."

This is better than telling the other person directly.

I was just killing fish for dinner.

But use this method as little as possible, because you are not sure whether the other person cares about what you say, and if the other person is in a bad mood, he is likely to be angry. 4. Pretense law

There is a speech pattern that is - you are like this, and it seems like that.

So and so are both descriptions.

You must know that when you describe specific things, the other party will not spend too much energy thinking, but if you describe something roughly, the other party will imagine and then guess.

Especially when you talk about the other person, the other person is more willing to spend time thinking about what you said. The way you are dressed today reminds me of xxx (I won’t write a better description).

In fact, you are using one specific description to map another specific description. The result is to give the other party more imagination and more mental investment when chatting with you.

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If you have any questions, you can contact me.